Lies Women Should Never Tell Their Doctor

It might seem common sense to always tell the truth to your doctor. As we get past age 40 telling everything to your doctor has added importance. We want to live...
Updated: February 28th, 2022
James Kelly

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James Kelly

Telling the truth when speaking with your doctor might seem like common sense, yet that is not always the case. Many people fail to tell their doctor everything - a lie by omission - or just flat out tell mistruths when they speak with their doctor. Some studies have shown that between 60 and 80 percent of patients aren't forthcoming or even lie to their physicians.

Lying to your doctor is not uncommon. As we get past age 40, being truthful to your doctor has added importance. Yet, many men and women fail to tell their doctors everything when they see them for their check-ups. 

Women need to disclose everything to their doctors, especially as they get older. Everyone wants to live a long life, but the quality of our longevity is also a significant concern. Women have unique health issues that cannot be ignored. These health problems will impact their overall health, longevity, and quality of life.

This might seem benign, but according to Dr. Robert Schwartz, who specializes in family medicine at the University of Miami Health System, 

Not being truthful with your doctor can be detrimental to your health. Dr. Robert Schwartz, who specializes in family medicine at the University of Miami Health System, says that, at the very least, lying to your doctor limits the doctor's ability to help you properly.

"The most common lies told are about smoking, drugs, and diet," Dr. Schwartz says.

Schwartz explains that people lie to their doctor often because they find something embarrassing or perhaps they don't want to be judged. 

Avoid Little Lies

Even some little fibs can be hazardous to your health. Remember, what you tell your doctor is confidential, even to the authorities in most situations, because of doctor-patient privilege. There are some limits, but for the vast majority of people they should not be concerned about confidentiality. 

Avoid telling these lies to your doctor - click here. WebMD lists 13 common lies - click here.

Don't Lie to Yourself About Aging and Long-Term Care

Long-term care is a women's issue, not because men don't have health issues, get older, and require help with daily living activities. We all know men need long-term care just like women. However, women are often the default caregivers for husbands or parents. When a woman needs long-term care, their husbands are usually not helpful.

Because women live longer, they have a more significant risk of needing extended care in their own home or a facility. Have you considered who would be your caregiver when you require long-term health care?

Who would become your caregiver? Where would the funds come from to pay for professional care? How would long-term care affect your family and finances?

People require long-term care services and supports due to illness, accident, or the impact of aging. Your health insurance, including Medicare and supplements (for those age 65 and older), will not pay for a majority of these services. This means, without an advance plan, your family will become caregivers, or you will pay for your own care - or both.

Longevity and Caregiving

Why is long-term care a woman's issue? The American Association for Long-Term Care Insurance puts it simply - "Two words; longevity and caregiving."

The fact remains that women still live longer than men. Women also have higher rates of disability and chronic health problems. Thus, women are far more likely to need long-term care. But it doesn't end there.

Women tend to be the first-line caregivers for their male husbands. Generally, by the time a woman requires extended care, the husband has either passed away or is too old to be a caregiver.

Being a caregiver is hard for anyone, much harder if you are over 50 years old. However, it is also hard on your adult children who have careers, families, and other responsibilities.

Give Your Family Time to Be Family

You can give your family time to be family as you give yourself access to your choice of quality care in the setting you desire. Plus, you can protect your savings and income at the same time.

Affordable Long-Term Care Insurance is the solution for many American families. You can't wait, however, until you are older and require care to obtain coverage.

Your Health is a Consideration

Long-Term Care Insurance is underwritten based on your health history. This includes the medications you are taking and other factors. Every company has different rules. You will have to answer questions to get an accurate quote. That means you should speak with a specialist.

Use an LTC Specialist to Find Affordable Coverage

A Long-Term Care Insurance specialist will be able to fit your age, health, family history, and other factors with the right insurance company. This way, you have quality coverage but won't spend a lot of money. Most general insurance agents and financial planners are not qualified to help in this area.

LTC NEWS can help you find an experienced specialist who works with the major insurance companies. They will have experience in underwriting, policy design, claims, and the federal/state partnership programs available in many states. Just click here.

Long-Term Care Insurance is affordable if you purchase it when you are younger and in reasonably good health. Experts suggest planning before you retire; most people obtain coverage in their 50s. No matter, a specialist will be able to find the right coverage at a price you can afford.

Being truthful to your doctor, to a Long-Term Care Insurance specialist, and to yourself will benefit you and your family.

 

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